|She seems so harmless here...|
She starts by several sessions of night waking 2-3 times each night. She then gives you a taste of only one waking that is very short, and she easily goes back to sleep. Finally, there is one morning that you wake up at 7:30am feeling strangely rested, and you come to the slow realization that she has slept through the entire night. Erroneously you think, "things are on the right track." In fact you get another night just like this one, and you begin to feel like this is the end of a sleepless era.
|... but, don't mess with her.|
The next night and the week thereafter, it's 2-3 wakings in a night. You see, she gets you rested and out of the swing of being unendingly tired. Just as you get used to sleeping again and feeling like a human being, she slams you again with sleep deprivation.
The only thing keeping me from sending her down to Langley to hone her skills, is that unlike some children who get teeth two at a time at regular intervals through the age of 2, my child's body feels the need to present all the teeth at once. ...and apparently, it hurts. Another blogger I know likened it to imagining if your tibia slowly started to grow out of your skin. Though I've no direct experience with this, I can imagine that it would hurt. A lot. So, I have some empathy.
Some of her sleep torture techniques are saved for when we are away from home as we were for this past holiday week. My little one does not have adaptable sleeping habits, and I always enter into a trip as if she does. If I remembered each past trips sleeping debaucles, I'd never really travel until they were 10.
You know that a particular night is not going well, when in the middle of the night you are reciting the words to the Samuel L Jackson narrated children's book, "Go the F*** to Sleep," in your head. When this happens, I know that it's time for Dad to intervene and give me, and my breasts, a break. These are not the mom thoughts I want to have... Harper, in that moment, has unleashed my Mr. Hyde. It is not pretty.
So, here's my offer, if you want to get some solid info out of your teenager about their escapades last weekend, while at the same time scare them into safe sex, I'm renting the 15-month-old out for a low, low price, if you act now... but wait there's more! I'll throw in my 4 year-old who sleeps well, but joins you in the middle of the night from a bad dream, and then proceeds to kick and slap you in his sleep as he rests perpendicular to your bodies.
That'll really scare 'em straight! Any takers? I'm even open to (and encourage) a full weekend!
I know I'm not the only one with sleep issues... care to share?